Laying out a new house - looking for Wiring and controller advise

["John J" <nobody@xxxxxxxxxxx>]

Looking at 80 lights/outlets being controlled, including a large detached
garage.  Looking for lighting control preferably with an integrated
controller

- UPB     -  Supported by Elk and HAI
- Insteon - Single vendor, partially supported by Elk (limited grouping),
not HAI
- Zwave  - Integrated with Elk, not HAI. No status feed back

Also looking at installing a Russound, which is HAI supported as well.

I've read the Insteon comparison, done by Insteon, with a skeptical view.
Anyone had any real world experience with this size system and layout?

Thanks