Re: Psychology at work: How the Bunny-Boiler boils her bunnies - A must see event...

["Kadaitcha Man" <nntp.news@xxxxxxxxx>]

Lionel <usenet@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> Thou madam mitigation. Thou idiotic, rank
nit. Ye snarled:

> On Wed, 25 Apr 2007 10:16:46 +0545, "Kadaitcha Man"
> <nntp.news@xxxxxxxxx> wrote:
>
>> Rhonda Lea Kirk <spunky@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> Thou podgy dunce. Thou
>> pox-marked mannish coward. Ye gnashed:
>>
>>> "DaRkAnGeL" <chaos@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote in message
>>> news:f0k101$glh$1@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
>>
>> <snipped>
>>
>> <to any reader>
>> If you are interested in psychology, this is truly awesome stuff.
>> Watch very carefully. There is no snippage from this point on to
>> then end of the bunny-boiler's mind-magick trick being exposed here:
>>
>>> And from my point of view, in the absence of the pressure, we'd be
>>> fine, I'd be working and we'd be planning my move to Australia.
>>
>> [^] Take note of the explicit notion of pressure.
>>
>>>> So, as stupid as it sounds, it seems as though (and again, I don't
>>>> have all the facts - I have everyone's perception of the facts,
>>>> motivations, and desires - which is all any of you have as well) if
>>>> you two could just bloody well forgive each other, you might have a
>>>> shot at
>>>> reclaiming that love!! At the very least, you could stop giving
>>>> each other black eyes on a daily basis.
>>>
>>> Well, DA, when I was 15, my father beat my face into a hardwood
>>> floor, because I told my sister to stay out of my belongings--a
>>> typical sibling situation met with violence.
>>>
>>> I stood up to him. I talked to the social worker at my school, and I
>>> was removed from my home to foster care. Although the beating was
>>> only the tip of the iceberg, it was sufficient to get me out of the
>>> situation.
>>
>> [^] Step 1. Go back in time to a horrible event. Evoke highly emotive
>>            images from said event.
>>
>>> Since then, I have never hesitated to stand up to anyone who
>>> attempts to control me by force.
>>
>> [^] Step 2. Surreptitiously discard the previous notion of "pressure"
>>            and introduce the emotively harsher notion of "control by
>>            force."
>>
>>> I'll do almost anything for love, if I'm asked, but I won't be
>>> subjected to force.
>>
>> [^] Step 3. Conflate the ideas at 1. & 2. and drag the now
>>            transmogrified idea across the intervening time spam and
>>            apply it to the here and now.
>>
>> [^] There are two sleights of hand in the entire mind-magick
>> operation. Step 3 is where the *first* Svengali manoeuvre is
>> actually hidden; the mind image at 1 is from the distant past and
>> not related to the present in any way, yet the past is now neatly
>> wrapped up in a reference to the present at 2 (qv "Since then"), and
>> 2 is the notion that carries the now greatly amplified punch that is
>> inherent in the change of the idea of "pressure" into "control by
>> force."
>>
>>> In the case of Rick and me, on top of all the other force,
>>
>> [^] Step 4: Thus both the real history and the very presence in the
>> here and now of the current event are altered by the history of the
>> other unrelated event. What remains is an implicit damning
>> accusation that is dropped at the feet of the unsuspecting reader
>> that is reinforced with the now altered idea of "additional force",
>> (qv "on top of all the other force", note that "all the other force"
>> is completely undefined; it is nebulous and inherently all
>> encompassing.)
>>
>>> there was this at the very end:
>>>
>>> http://groups.google.com/group/sci.psychology.psychotherapy/msg/c3777625043aab93
>>
>> [^] Step 5: This is the *second* Svengali manoeuvre. While the
>> reader's head is busy dealing and coping with the horrible scenery
>> in the mind image of emotional and physical abuse, the reader's
>> attention is immediately taken from the bombshell that was just
>> dropped and it is focused firmly on yet another event.
>>
>> The switch is very quick and the presumably horrified reader has
>> likely not seen the *first* switch at all. Thus while still reeling
>> from taking in the devastation of the first mind image, and not
>> having time to inspect the whole process for soundness, the implicit
>> damning accusation is left to set like jello in the unsuspecting
>> reader's mind. In short, a "fact" has been created from two
>> independent ideas and the unwitting mind is left to assume a fact.
>>
>> <bows to audience>
>>
>> Now for the encore... major snippage below; the context is not
>> relevant. What is relevent is the impact of the statements and their
>> implicit intent in light of the mind-magick trick exposed above:
>>
>>> You have this almost exactly the opposite of what it was
>>
>>> The perception you have never happened, just FYI.
>>
>> [^] Step 6: Question the reader's perceptions just in case the
>> tricks from Step 1 to Step 5 are being quietly churned over and
>> analysed in the back of the horrified reader's mind.
>>
>> <bow>
>>
>> "The emperor has no clothes."
>
> Nice work.

Thank you, honestly. Truly. Accepted in friendship.

[PHILOSOPHY MODE]
But, the question is, is it or is it not an accurate autopsy? Following from
that, the question is, is the one dissection above representative of
everything else that has been witnessed and recorded for posterity by
google?

Take a closer look... the following two statements made by the bunny-boiler
are unequivocably true, but only insofar as they stand alone and are not
connected to what she wanted them connected to:

"There was a discussion that had taken place innumerable times before over a
five month span."

"But I've explained many times that it was the continuation of a
conversation that had been going on for five months, and the only thing that
changed was his reaction to it."

What I drew out in the dissection is what was actually happening across the
entire span of all those five months, and those emails that the bunny boiler
and crasston want me to post prove exactly that, provided the dissection is
an accurate description of the process used to emotionally abuse me.

Towards the end of that time I came soul-crushingly close to losing the
tenuous grip I had on the basic belief in myself as being an ok bloke; it
was being eroded away over those five months, and how it was done is plain
to see. Fortunately cognitive dissonance kicked me fair in the psyche,
lifted me up out of the melee by the scruff of my neck and threw me
forcefully to one side; it was quite an emotionally shocking event when it
took place.