Re: EXTRA: Graham teh Kook admits to serious failure (Re: Dammit.. How to get 2 zones and power from a 4-conductor)

["Rhonda Lea Kirk" <rhondalea@xxxxxxxxx>]

"Nelson Muntz" <none@xxxxxxxxx> wrote in message
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> Rhonda Lea Kirk wrote:
>
>> "Nelson Muntz" <none@xxxxxxxxx> wrote in message
>> news:fo7o23p5iiqrusgnp5jnhv2154drkmofcp@xxxxxxx
>>> Kadaitcha Man wrote:
>>>
>>>> So, what do you call your statement, "You two deserve each other",
>>>> which is being replied to in the following post then...?
>>>
>>>
>>> I call it as I see it.  You're both nuts.
>>
>> I find it disturbing that, in your mind, my rejection of your
>> attempt to involve me in your vendetta is evidence that I'm nuts.
>
> There is no vendetta.  My only concern was that you were going to
> "off" yourself.  You made it very clear that you were suicidal - and I
> was hoping, desperately, that I might be able to help you.  That's it.
> My offer still stands, I love you because God said I should.

Y'know, one thing is very clear.

You do not listen. You do not hear.

It doesn't matter what is said to you, you believe what you believe, and
nothing will dissuade you.

You continue to tell me things about myself that are untrue--and I'm not
just talking about the suicide bit. You have told me how I feel, you
have told me what I need.

What that makes you is a control freak of the worst kind.

I had replied to one of your posts before you decided to go after
Kadaitcha Man, but I decided it was too harsh, so I stuck it in the
drafts folder.

Here's an excerpt:

>> If I say I'm okay, and you keep asking me to say I'm okay, I'm not
>> sure
>> what to do.
>>
>> From a logical point of view, if I weren't okay, I wouldn't be
>> answering
>> this post. It follows a progression--and if the police had no
>> difficulty
>> believing I'm okay in the sense you mean, it would seem to me it's a
>> reasonable conclusion reach.
>>
>> I appreciate the kindness that underlies your words, but I'm pretty
>> sure
>> that I'm not going to be able to make you understand the situation.
>> I'm
>> lucky enough that I do have friends (real life) who know me well and
>> who
>> understand perfectly what happened, so they're less worried about me
>> and
>> more angry on my behalf. I find that helpful, all in all.

At this point, I take back the bit about kindness.

You seem to lack state control. One minute I'm a nut job, the next you
love me because God said you should.

It's boggling to me that someone can switch like you do. I understand
mixed feelings very well, but black and white thinking of the kind you
have demonstrated is off-putting, at best.

>> It hasn't been even two days since you used glowing words to
>> describe me and my overall value as a human being. Nothing has
>> changed since then, except you tried to use me as a club, and I
>> declined to do any battering on your behalf.
>
>
> Message-ID: <f0ga6s$3ks$1@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
> <quote>
> You're looking pretty bad right now. <removes glasses> Now you look a
> whole lot worse.
> </quote>
>
> Message-ID: <f0ga6s$3ks$1@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
> <quote>
> He's got major IQ points on you, and he's neither a fucking racist nor
> a net abuser.  That puts him well ahead of you from the starting gate.
> </quote>

These quotes were in direct response to your attempt to use me as a way
to batter Kadaitcha Man for something *you* had previously done wrong
and had been caught out at.

What happens after the fact neither explains nor excuses what came
before.

As much as I hate to bring this up, it's the sort of thing my
ex-husband, the narcissist, used to do. You've set off some really loud
alarms, and I want nothing more than for you to go away and stop
bothering me. It seems, however, that you can't shutup about me now that
you've glommed on in the name of "saving" me, even though I neither
solicited nor need your help.

I really hope I've made myself clear, and you will carry on your
vendetta without involving me.

--
Rhonda Lea Kirk

You can discover what your enemy fears most by
observing the means he uses to frighten you. Eric Hoffer